… and why is this community against them?

  • Alice@hilariouschaos.com
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    Ppl take lemmy too seriously. You remember all that negativity from reddit?

    Yea, that’s mostly here on lemmy now. Reddit has become much more pleasant since they’ve moved here.

    Reddit is not without its issues. Only saying the difference is noticeable for sure.

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    Obvious bait

    but to answer your stupid question: Things that could be easily answered by a google search are pretty stupid to post here. The implied intention of this community, and the subreddit it was inspired by, is to provide a space for people to ask questions that don’t have an immediately identifiable and/or definite answer and require certain social understanding to navigate.

    “How many gallons of water to fill a pool?”, for example, is a question that does not belong here because you could easily find that info using a search engine (or even better, your pool’s owner’s manual).

    “How do you know when you’ve been swindled?” is something that does belong however, because it’s asking for personal experience to help navigate a situation that cannot be provided by a search engine.

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      See, I don’t need the answer to how many gallons of water to fill a pool so I won’t bother looking it up. But if someone replied I’d read it out of curiosity and be better for it. Discussions aren’t just 1 on 1 dialogos, they’re broad and general to a broad and general audience.

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    I’ll take this question in the spirit of the community you posted to. “No stupid questions” refers to the saying “there is no such thing as a stupid question,” which is an aphorism meant to destigmatize expressing ignorance. This is supposed to be a place to ask the questions you might be afraid to ask because you assume everybody else already knows.

    The other posters are responding a bit comedically at the notion that this community is fundamentally opposed to asking “stupid questions” when it’s traditionally been a space for “I’ve been afraid to ask, but are you supposed to use shampoo or conditioner first?” type questions.

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      which is an aphorism meant to destigmatize expressing ignorance

      teacher of mine expressed it in the form of the “there are two types of questions - smart ones and those you shouldn’t be ashamed of”.

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    [Personal view] A stupid question is typically one that has a built-in assumption or fallacy. For example, your question in the title isn’t stupid, until we include the body of the post; the body of the post contains an assumption (that this comm is against stupid questions, when the name of the comm instead conveys “no questions are stupid”), so it makes the question stupid.

    So, oddly enough, the part of the question that might make it stupid is not the question itself.

    Side note every bloody body does some damn stupid questions once in a while. So don’t take this “you’re question is of stupid!” as personal criticism. i.e. I could be the one asking the stupid question instead and I’m aware of this.

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    The name of the community comes from the idiom, “There’s no such thing as a stupid question.” The idea is that as long as the person asking the question genuinely wants to learn, then there is no question they can ask that would make them stupid because they’re trying to educate themselves - one of the least stupid things you can do.

    Some people feel shame at not knowing something, so they’ll often talk down to themselves and call it a stupid question. This is particularly true if the asker feels it’s something that they should already know or everyone around them seems to already know.

    This community offers a place where you can ask a question, no matter how small or basic, without fear of being made fun of. In a sense, you might say that the community welcomes stupid questions while at the same time reassuring the questioner that the question is not actually stupid.

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      Along the same lines, ignorance shouldn’t be seen as a negative unless it is willful. There is just so many things that not everyone experiences or has received conflicting information about to say being unaware is a negative until the person refuses to learn.

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      You’ve definitely not been in my latest work-related course. Dayum, people are able to ask some really stupid questions. (Subjective opinion)

  • harrys_balzac@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    This is it - the stupid question. It displays a complete lack of understanding and utter laziness.

    It’s perfect. It screams “I read the name of the community and took no other action to learn more about it before posting.”

    This is how you do it, folks

    Congratulations @frankenswine

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    People have already correctly answered that in this community there are no stupid questions, you’re supposed to be able to ask anything without ridicule. But if you want to permit the general existence of stupid questions, here’s the definition I’ve always used.

    A stupid question is one you can easily answer yourself.

    As in, any question due to real lack of knowledge is not stupid, but if you can answer your own question just by thinking about it for a second, then it wasn’t necessary to ask and therefore "stupid”.

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      I always thought as tho the meaning of the sub name is to make fun of people who do not awnser “stupid questions” by saying that they are forbidden from the sub.

      Maybe I’m just stupid lol

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        This is the safe space to ask a question you have that you are afraid other people would find stupid.

        It’s especially good for things some people feel are common sense, but that others just managed to miss growing up.

        Here’s an example. My husband is really smart. But he moved schools a lot over a 3 year period. He managed to completely miss kids being taught 1 is January, 2 is February, etc for dates. He just never learned it.

        He knows his birthday in number form. But if he needs, say May 23rd in number form, he’ll look it up or ask me which number May is.

        Some people would classify that as a stupid question and be a dick about it. I just answer him. I know he’s tried to learn it, he’s just never sure if he’s right and knows I know.

        This sub operates under the good faith that there are no stupid questions, just people who legit missed something along the way.

        In life, I would argue, there are stupid questions. But for me, it’s only in situations where someone is clearly just asking questions to make you break, or clearly not listening and asking the same questions over and over without even trying to pay attention, and lastly, weaponized incompetence where people are acting like that because they don’t want to do something and won’t just say no. Basically questions that are exclusively to waste someone else’s time are the only really stupid questions irl imho

        But here, you get the benefit of the doubt if you don’t know how to properly brush your teeth, or why May is 5 and July is 7.

        I believe the name originated on reddit, and an accurate name would be “thereAreNoStupidQuestionsHere” but the shorter version is what got the brand recognition, but the confusion is understandable

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    2 months ago

    I’ve often wondered, and occasionally asked people:

    Is this question, as I’m asking now with this sentance, a stupid question?

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    I don’t think there are any stupid questions … from the time we are children who learn to speak, we will ask millions of questions about everything because that’s how we learn.

    The problem is not in asking stupid questions or the right questions but in receiving absolutely dumb answers.

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    A stupid question is a question directed at stupid, or about stupid, or referring to stupid.

    So please, no stupid questions.