• LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    Or he could just have ADHD and the whole concept of “patience” and “habits” might seem alien and I approachable to him. Or the wait might have just been actually that long or the place too busy and restaurant staff clearly overwhelmed.

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      If you’re fundamentally incompatible with being served food, why would you go to a restaurant.

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        Because the other person wanted to and you want to make them have a good day even if it’s not your favourite thing to do??? Y’know??? Like how a relationship works??? At least how it does when you’re not a narcissist. Now this is what I call a red flag.

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          Then why would you ruin that experience by being very rude to everyone else in the restaurant???

          Either you can go to a restaurant or you can’t, in which case you need to find something that works for both of you as a couple.

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            How is it rude to help struggling employees get the food out??? 😭😭😭😭 That seems nice!!!1111 💪💪💪💪👍😎😎😎 the man is responsible and assertive the fella is an asset

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              “help struggling employees” ok lmao you’re either utterly clueless about the concept of a restaurant, a massive asshole, or trolling in which case well done.

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                So are they not struggling? In that case they’d bring the food out right as it comes out the kitchen. In which case the man wouldn’t actually be able to get to a plate before it’s grabbed by the waiter.

                So by actually doing it, the guy proves that the restaurant workers are struggling.

                And if you still imply they’re not struggling, that means they’re not doing their job on purpose, and you wouldn’t want to assume that, would you? That’s pretty nasty of you.

                Checkmate, atheists.

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      I have ADHD. Never in my fucking life wouth my ADHD make me go do this because ADHD also comes with built in anxieties and fears that would prevent you from acting like a selfish psychopath in public…

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        I’m diagnosed with ADHD and it does not come with any anxiety built in. Youre a selfish psychopath for claiming a disorder you clearly don’t have and don’t know to win an argument that it’s wrong to help struggling waiters bruh 💀

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            Check my other comments. I’ve been talking about my diagnosis since my account creation on here. Who tf are you to dictate to an actual professionally diagnosed, and not by some American telepillmill, what ADHD is like? That’s fucking disgusting.

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              Sorry, but I’m not American. Just like you don’t have ADHD. I’ma go ahead and ignore you now, you’re just not entertaining. Your modlog is a nonstop list of bans and removals because you’re just a troll. Not worth my effort.

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                Yeah close your eyes, don’t read, because you might find out you’re wrong and that’d shatter your fragile little world view. I absolutely have ADHD, and I never even implied you’re American lol.