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    5 hours ago

    Theres a few types of changes that can happen to people.

    1: Change hammered in by the vicissitudes of time.

    This is stuff like getting used to your dead end job because it’s comfy.

    2: Change foisted upon you by happenstance.

    This is stuff like becoming a parent or suffering a life changing medical emergency.

    3: Reactive change caused by inner turmoil.

    This is the kind of change that happens during a midlife crises or by an sudden inspiration that must be acted upon immediately or it loses its potency.

    4: Intentional change by measured reason.

    This is the kind of change people typically think of when they say people can’t change. It’s the hard kind of change and is rarely done in one’s life and even when it is done it’s the kind of windmill you can waste your whole life tilting at without ever slaying a single giant.

    Anyone can change the shape of their soul if they recognize its current shape and start making changes to it.

    Changing for the better is the real task.