My friends are saying that I should lower my standards because they think my standards are too high. But I think my standards are not high at all because all I want is a woman that is lean and in shape that plays video games and watches anime.
I do not want a woman that is overweight or obese that goes to clubs, does recreational drugs and drinks alcohol on the weekends.
Because I hate going to clubs because those places are to loud and noisy and I think doing recreational drugs and drinking alcohol is not healthy in my opinion.
That standard is fine. Leave the rest out and do things you like in social settings and bip bop boop, you’ve found somebody who’d rather be with you than at a club, even if all you do is watch anime, or she sits on the couch and watches you play video games. Be open to your ideal looking different from what you expected.