My friends are saying that I should lower my standards because they think my standards are too high. But I think my standards are not high at all because all I want is a woman that is lean and in shape that plays video games and watches anime.

I do not want a woman that is overweight or obese that goes to clubs, does recreational drugs and drinks alcohol on the weekends.

Because I hate going to clubs because those places are to loud and noisy and I think doing recreational drugs and drinking alcohol is not healthy in my opinion.

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    2 months ago

    Yes. For me it comes down to two things:

    1. Do I get on and have fun with this person?
    2. Am I attracted to them?

    I don’t think you need to be so specific with your requirements. If they don’t like Anime, then that shouldn’t be a deal breaker. As long as they’re not forcing you to stop watching /liking those things, you can like different things.

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      But the reason why those things are a deal breaker for me is because I want a woman that I can play video games with and watch anime together in my 1 bedroom condo.

      I don’t care if a woman is 18 years old or if she is 50 years old. Aslong as she is a hardcore gamer and a anime fan and she is not obese or anorexic. Because there are hot 50 year old woman in my opinion.

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        2 months ago

        Wow ok. So even if you met an amazing woman you got on with, if she didn’t have play video games or watch Anime you’d reject them? Seriously, you need to think of your priorities before you enter any serious relationship because it doesn’t sound like many of them are gonna end well

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          Yeah I don’t care if she is the most beautiful woman on earth and she is super into me. If she is not a hardcore gamer and a anime fan. Then I will not date her.

          Because I want a woman that I can play video games with and watch anime together in my 1 bedroom condo.

          If all I wanted was a beautiful woman I would rather just pay a very beautiful sex worker to have sex with me.