My friends are saying that I should lower my standards because they think my standards are too high. But I think my standards are not high at all because all I want is a woman that is lean and in shape that plays video games and watches anime.

I do not want a woman that is overweight or obese that goes to clubs, does recreational drugs and drinks alcohol on the weekends.

Because I hate going to clubs because those places are to loud and noisy and I think doing recreational drugs and drinking alcohol is not healthy in my opinion.

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    2 months ago

    If you really are a tren goblin you should stop taking unhealthy recreational drugs before you worry about drugs other people use. Like another user said, don’t expect anything you can’t bring to the table for them.

    Also, the health of recreational drug use varies wildly. Having one drink of alcohol each night is different to getting very drunk every friday and saturday is different to going on cocaine benders every weekend is different to smoking a bit of weed after work is different to tripping on shrooms once or twice a month. Some of those have huge negative side effects on health, some have zero impact.

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      2 months ago

      I don’t take any PEDS my username is just a joke.

      I believe that recreational drugs and alcohol even in moderation is not healthy. Its just my opinion if you disagree with me then that fine. We’ll just have to agree to disagree on that.

      As far what do I bring to table. I can offer a woman a very loving loyal man. I will compliment her about her appearance everyday and tell her how amazing I think she is and I will never look at another woman sexually ever again.

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        I agree even a little bit of alcohol is unhealthy, but that’s backed up by the science on the topic. Classic psychedelics (shrooms, lsd, mescaline) are extremely safe tho, less impactful to health than an unhealthy meal. If health is that important to you, at least have a consistent and evidence based perspective on it.

        Complimenting appearance everyday is a misguided thing to promise, it’s better to compliment things people have more direct control over, and it’s better to understand the person and their love languages and show love in a way that they’ll appreciate the most. Never looking at another woman sexually is an impossible standard which you’re better off not promising.

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          I don’t know anything about psychedelics (shrooms, lsd, mescaline) but if those are extremely safe than I guess I would be okay with a woman taking those things in moderation.

          As far as me complimenting her on her appearance everyday. I guess you’re right it is better to compliment her on things she has more direct control over.

          And as far as me promising her never to look at another woman sexually ever again. I guess I should clarify what I mean byThat when I say that I will never look at another woman sexually what I really mean is that I will never jerk off to another woman ever again. The only woman that I will jerk off to is her and my waifu’s.