every time we go out to eat, I take like two bites and feel like throwing up, and I’m not one to get nauseous easily. this only started when we started dating (wed been best friends for 3 years or so up until that)

its not new food, I’ve been to these places many times before

  • strawberry@kbin.earthOP
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    1 month ago

    interesting. now that I think about it the less fancy the place the more likely I’ll be okay I think? but imma start taking notes

    but yeah that’s probably what it is

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      1 month ago

      Money is a serious thing. If your relationship is going to make your financial life unsustainable, that needs resolving.

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      1 month ago

      Really think about what you are expecting of yourself at times like that. Sometimes nice restaurants make me feel pressured to have a good time or otherwise “fit in” with the other people eating there.