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Cake day: January 6th, 2024

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  • brrt@sh.itjust.workstoFemcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneourgasm
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    1 month ago

    Yeh, I know. This is as much of a reality check for me as it is for you.

    I need to constantly remind myself that other people struggle too, they might just not show it.

    It’s ok to have those feelings and to have that barrier. But peek over it from time to time, maybe there’s someone there peeking over theirs.


  • brrt@sh.itjust.workstoFemcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zoneourgasm
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    1 month ago

    I feel you with everything you wrote. My theoretical take on “I’d feel bad for anyone I’d let close…” is that

    1. You might a better person than many, because many people do not think about the impact of their actions on others
    2. Everyone is doing things for themselves. Just be honest with them and yourself and try not to hurt anyone in the process as best as you can.
    3. It’s a very nice rationalization for not having to try at all. It’s easier to just mope by yourself :D

    What to do with all of this? Who knows… The struggle is real.


  • I guess I forgot things like Patreon which could be a valid option. Although I’m neither a fan of subscribing to specific creators nor am I particularly fond of Patreon.

    With Nebula my perception is that I pay a monthly fee and they can figure out who gets what depending on whose videos I watched. I don’t need to be particular in my action on who to support.