My question is more about informing my family, Do you mind me asking how your dad broke the news to you?

You got a lot of downvotes, but this is practical advice, it doesn’t really help me specifically, but I appreciate your response anyway.

10/10 you managed to capture my vernacular exactly.

Sincerely, thanks. I’m going to explore my options, but I’m more concerned about how my mom and brothers might take the news that I’m battling something like this.