This is so funny to me! My wife recently got mad at me for comments I made on our anniversary. When I explained what I meant, she was totally fine. Communication is hard sometimes.

It’s pretty great. Spending this winter snowboarding around Colorado.

I’m not sure I understand what you’re asking. It seems like you’re asking why your clangd extension isn’t working? But then you say:

BTW I’m not talking about using clangd with the vscode flatpak package