This is a 2-in-1 question, I suppose. I type the way I do. I’ve always typed this way, but I’ve noticed when interacting with people (not on here) that people always think I’m far older than 19. They think I’m in my forties or fifties.
Also, I tend to type using full stops, which people may think are rude. When I’m typing a full sentence, though, I end it with a period. If I say, “He’s being an asshole,” (with a period), I mean that as a fact, not out of anger. It just happens to be ended with a period since it’s a sentence.
Because those of who grew up communicating a lot via the written word stopped feeling beholden to type using classic grammar rules like ending every sentence of every communication with a period no matter what.
The entire purpose of language is to express yourself, and people started noticing that their texts sounded friendlier if they sounded less abrupt, so they started typing that way.
You type according to traditional essay writing rules which is how older people learned to write, younger people learned to focus on producing natural sounding language and conversation.
I guess because people under 20 type like illiterates that if you type correctly, using proper punctuation and spelling and what not, they assume you have to be older.
I don’t want to agree. Also, I often agree.
Older people grew up writing less than younger people have, because of texting, so they’re more accustomed to taking their time with the proprieties of grammar. Younger people began using grammar as a tone marker differently from how it had previously been used, so they tend to see a bigger difference between “no” and “No.” as an answer to a question than older people do. For younger people, the latter tends to seem more abrupt and final, which could come across rudely.
accustomed to taking their time
Taking time to do it right? What fucking losers. Wait; why did my heart monitor stop workin--------
The idea of periods being rude or something is moronic.
It’s simply linguistic evolution, and I find it interesting how the internet has shaped language. Writing on the internet tends to be very short and conversation-like, so if you want to get a point across there’s no need for a full stop. This meant, that when people put full stops at the end of messages on the internet, it started being seen as more formal and serious, which became a tone marker
linguistic evolution
“Usage dictates form” is how vapid influencer bimbos are driving English into the dumpster. French evolves: it has a committee to weed out stupid. English has no such guidance, and that’s why it trends toward an appearance we’d call ‘platypodian’ if we could only find some instagram bimbo to promote it.
I’ve never had one, but they seem to be assholes in general. Cramps, bleeding, unwanted hormone surges.
I quite like your way of typing, tbh. Looks quite elegant.
Thank you! You too.
For the first question, you might find answers more helpful if you ask the aforementioned people that you’re actually interacting with.
And regarding the second question, it’s probably related to the first. Young people who grew up texting and using social media have adopted abbreviated writing styles. Older people using the same technologies tend to retain more proper forms. Of course, people aren’t monoliths. There’s plenty of young people writing in complete sentences and plenty of older people utilizing short form words.
The way you type is like any other form of self-expression. If others want to read into it or decide they don’t like it, that’s on them. Type however you like and don’t give it another thought.
YES IM JUST EXPRESSING MYSELF, ITS TOTALLY EVERYONE ELSES FAULT FOR FEELING OFF-PUT BY MY TYPING STYLE. THERE DEFINITELY ARENT SOCIAL NORMS AND CONTRACTS THAT WE ALL FOLLOW TO BE ABLE TO EASILY AND ACCURATELY COMMUNICATE.
I don’t see how typing style is much different from things like slang or making references. If you can be understood by the people you’re communicating with, great!
@magnetosphere I feel like society imposes way too many rules that don’t make sense, hence they cause lots of misunderstandings like this. I’m not sure if it’s the English graduate in me or what, but I always write on the Internet as though I was speaking to someone, and I’ve never really thought about it, although I’ll be honest and admit my own guilt in criticizing other people‘s writing styles. But that’s more the English grad side of me, not shutting up I think.
I agree with you there, but the key is the last part about being understood. In OP’s case they’re insisting on using a formal writing style that makes the average person perceive their message with an unintended tone.
I’ve seen certain parts of the internet develop “accents” as well in ways of typing.
What do you mean?
The obvious examples are people typing in Scots or AAVE but that’s more just phonetic transcription of existing language.
https://youtu.be/SDPasRas5u0?si=hPKGYQ-beH99GBBC
This video is ten years old so the examples are outdated but the idea is sound.
I have found that I always use proper punctuation in informal communication except for a period at the end of a message. If the last sentence is a question or exclamation, I’ll use a question mark or exclamation point. But if it technically requires a period: usually nothing.
Then again, I am in my forties or fifties
I feel like there’s a fine line here between wanting to use proper grammar and thinking you’re superior for doing so
I just want to.
Twenty years ago when I was your age, I felt the same way. People are just ignorant.
If it makes you feel any better, this is the most 19 year old post ever.
You’re asking the wrong crowd. People likely think you’re old because you talk to us too much.
I am only assume it’s because your written communication is of a higher standard than your contemporaries. Keep it up.
Quit typing so bigoty, boomer. /s
Sorry, what?
Because old people like me view written correspondence as less disposable. When jotting down personal notes, we don’t worry about spelling or punctuation, but writing a letter? You double check that shit so there isn’t documentation of how illiterate you are!
Youth grew up with texting. It’s designed to be fast and efficient. Sup? OMG 👍 They just need to get the point across, it’s not a grammar competition.
Neither is right or wrong, it’s just a generational difference.
Young people focus on the tone they’re conveying.
Old people focus on following the rules that were beaten into them as children for no reason.
Oh, no. It’s wrong. Punctuation makes everything clear!
There is absolutely no difference between “no” and “No.”. Both can be understood perfectly well.
Or … If you can’t understand it unless they spell it out for you, there may be a deficiency on your end.
Lol
I’m glad you thought it was funny.
Evidently it hit a little too close to home for others.
it’s not a grammar competition.
While I agree that there’s less of an expectation of grammar, informal text communication has definitely developed grammar of its own. OP mentioned full stops, for example — ending a message with one is a tone marker now
Full stops are slowly becoming a separator instead of a terminator in colloquial chats, which I find interesting, since some scripts use an equivalent character like that
no offense, but mature people wouldnt ask this question. its attention-seeking behavior often found in children.
Good one!
I’d say it’s more insecurity
I think it’s trying to understand society and his place in it. These aren’t bad questions. At a certain point you rather know where you fit and other people be damned. But at 19, your trying to understand how other people think still. You have your own thought process and are still getting used to other adults not processing information the way you do.
Oh? Thanks for your input. Well, I’m a mere 19 year old.
This community is literally called “no stupid questions”. Don’t worry about it.
if you say so. not sure why it matters
You could shut the fuck up then instead of damaging a space called “no stupid questions” you started punching down at this kid.
Seriously go take a time out sit in s corner and actually think about what you have done
You just said why it matters in your previous post
- *comment, not “post.” This whole thing is one post that we’re all forming comment chains on.
- I think he meant he doesn’t see why OP made this post in the first place at all, though I could be wrong.
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I make this mistake all the time. Thanks for catching it! Maybe one day I’ll remember.
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Huh. Good idea. I dunno, either.
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