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    The problem is people like Andrea Junker here have gone way past the point of reasonability with their claims. So the people who are “supporting racism, …etc” don’t actually believe that they’re doing that. Because one teeny step out-of-line on the left, and you’re labeled right wing, and jumped on by thirsty hoards of people who would rather eat their own.

    Nobody who’s voting republican actually believes you when you say they are supporting these things, because we live in clown world, and they’re all brainwashed into thinking that you’re lying.

    I tell people this constantly, and get ignored or chided for the thought. Meanwhile, I’ve got a previously Trump supporter boss, who I’ve slowly become friends with and have shown him the problems on the right and moved him further to the left.

    It can be done, but it requires not being a rabid animal about it.

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      Because one teeny step out-of-line on the left, and you’re labeled right wing

      Genuinely trying to figure out what you’re referencing. Are we talking “one teeny” Daniel Perry shooting? Or is this “one teeny” mega-millionaire Dave Chappelle not getting a sixth Netflix comedy special because he’s become too transphobic? Or is this “my kids won’t talk to me anymore because I screamed ‘Pull your pants up!’ at Kendrick Lamar during the Superbowl Halftime Show”?

      I tell people this constantly, and get ignored or chided for the thought.

      :-/

      I’ve got a previously Trump supporter boss, who I’ve slowly become friends with and have shown him the problems on the right and moved him further to the left.

      Doing the yeoman’s work of leftism by… checks notes… sucking up to my Trump-loving boss.

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      When you become as reactionary as your opponents, then you’re no better than them. Thank you for not being like this.

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        So If I am as vehemntly against murderers as they are about murdering, I’m as bad as the murderer?

        You’ve nicely summed up centrism.

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          Walk softly, and carry a big stick. You have the Declaration of Independence and the Boston Tea Party to guide any future actions you take to stop your current fascist leader. DO SOMETHING. You’re fucking up my country too.

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            The Boston Tea Party? You mean the thing the colonists tried to blame on Native Americans?

            Maybe people shouldn’t be guided by extremely fucking racist things when trying to stop a fascist?

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            Just FYI, you sent me a PM with your wrong sockpuppet account. You were supposed to use kreskin, not the account you used to reply to yourself:

            And you might read the last part of the first paragraph of the Wikipedia link you didn’t read since it backs me up.

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        Ever since the run up to Trumps first presidency I think you would agree that the republican party has become increasingly unhinged. And how has the democrats responded? With civility (in most cases.) And where has that got them? Your democracy is being dismantled, oversight removed, aid removed, trade wars with allies, etc. They got here by arguing in good faith, by being civil and not wanting to be labelled a reactionary.

        Oh, and if you honestly believe you’re no better if you’re being reactionary towards fucking nazi saluting cunts, then fuck you. From the bottom of my heart, get absolutely fucked

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          On the contrary, the fascist bastards need to be called out. I wasn’t defending THEM, I was defending the average right of center voter. Those fascist animals should be put down. I’m not your enemy. They are.

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            I was defending the average right of center voter

            Who voted for the fascists, making them fascists themselves

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              Thus you see the utter banality of evil and how it gains power and momentum. From people not actually DOING something.

              What are YOU going to DO to stop them, American?

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          Being reactionary to a nazi salute at a presidential inauguration is warranted, reasonable, and useful.

          Being reactionary to my 70 year old neighbor who ate too many paint chips as a child because he had a Trump sign in his lawn for 2 weeks before the election is less useful.

          Being reactionary against an anonymous stranger in your own digital echo chamber is pointless (assuming their bad argument isn’t also in bad faith).

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      They’ve gone to the election spouting claims immigrants are eating peoples pets, that they’re going to evict them all etc. If you’ve paid any attention to the run up for the election and yet claim they’re not voting for racist politics I really don’t know what to tell you.

      They’re racists. Voting for the republican party because they’re spouting racist claims, backing it up with nazi salutes and racist acts.

      She’s not being a rabid animal. She’s calling it for what it is. You’re not obliged to use kiddie gloves with these cunts

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        Nobody’s born a nazi, and in my opinion painting millions of people with a broad brush solves nothing even if feels righteous. There’s a whole spectrum of people ranging from apathetic to ignorant to hateful and inflammatory.

        As funny as it is to call someone an idiot for voting based on the price of eggs, it lacks empathy for what that might mean to some people. What if all you’ve been eating is instant ramen with an egg to pay for a medical bill that insurance didn’t cover and now you can’t even afford that.

        You might be more inclined to scroll past yet another “Trump says wild shit” headline but engage more with right wing Tik Tok content arguing that the system is broken because of the ((woke-ism)) and ((DEI)). Even if you don’t believe it, now the social media algorithm has your weak spot and can put you in an echo chamber to exploit it…

        Are there still people out there waving swastikas and chanting racist shit in red hats? Sure. But screaming at them won’t change anything. If someone can be changed, you’re not going to reach them now with lecturing and scolding. It’s not kiddie gloves, it’s taking a realistic approaches to convince real human beings

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            They said nothing to get “yeeted” by mods.

            You, and others, however, have either been outright violating rule 1 (be respectful) or are sure as hell skirting that line.

            And before you start crying unfairness, people who have attacked you have been getting their posts removed too.

            So how about before you decide that us mods are super, duper, trooper unfair, you maybe take a look at the fact that you’re getting a benefit.

        • wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          Careful citizen, it seems you’ve had a little too much to think.

          More seriously, I wish you all the luck in the world with convincing people that their personal two minutes hate isn’t a good thing.


          Doesn’t help that there’s a lot of people down so low that idealogical elitism and self righteousness is nearly all they have going for them. It’s a legitimate issue that there are a bunch of people who are so depressed about the state of the world that they end up defining themselves by the fact that they aren’t part of the “bad group”, so any humanization of that group robs them of something vital to them.

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            My challenge is many of these people voted to directly remove my equal rights and to potentially place me in a camp. How do I deal with those folks?

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      Just because they live in a clown world doesn’t mean we do.

      Honestly at this point I don’t know if any Trump voters are intelligent enough to understand how wrong they are and how they’ve enabled really shitty people to do horrible things.

      Like, genuinely, is it worth even trying to be nice or have a conversation in good faith when it’s basically impossible to do that even if you try. These folks are so far divorced from reality you can’t have a good faith convo because they don’t respect truth and won’t engage in good faith themselves.

      You can’t really force these idiots to understand how wrong this shit is when they seemingly can’t even comprehend it. Like they’re just genuinely that fucking dumb.

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      Nobody who’s voting republican actually believes you when you say they are supporting these things, because we live in clown world, and they’re all brainwashed into thinking that you’re lying.

      I tell people this constantly, and get ignored or chided for the thought. Meanwhile, I’ve got a previously Trump supporter boss, who I’ve slowly become friends with and have shown him the problems on the right and moved him further to the left.

      I’m not going to chide you, but after 8 years of trying, it’s only gotten worse.

      I’m done. I need to focus on keeping my family safe and away from magas.

      If you are having better luck changing hearts and minds, I applaud you for it. IME they aren’t interested in listening to anyone but Trump.