Could be either, could be a bit of both. Hard to say really. My guess is the last one.

Now go do your chores, you lazy little hottie.

This could be climate-related. She might mean you’re working too hard and need to cool off. Try to stay hydrated out there because you’re looking hot.

It’s an actual thing. When it feels more like you have a teenage son than a partner it’s hard to get turned on by them, even if you weren’t already too exhausted from clearing up after them.

In my experience it’s both 😁