I have imposter syndrome, both at work and in my relationship.

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    5 months ago

    I have a mild speech impairment. I don’t stutter on a daily basis but when I’m under heavy stress or when I’m tired I tend to stutter-ish. On top of that I live in a country where I don’t speak in my native language and sometimes I feel self-conscious about small mistakes I make (like using the wrong word or messing up the grammar) which induces the stress response. It’s not a big deal but it makes me crazy when I can’t express my thoughts in public.

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      5 months ago

      I don’t mean to belittle your feelings about it, but I would find that cute af. There are certainly people around you that would feel the same.

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        4 months ago

        Well, sometimes I get away with some petty wrongdoings just because I stutter. And I’ve learned it to use it for my advantage. Just to be clear, I’m not abusing this “power”, it’s mostly “organic”.

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      5 months ago

      people who shit on people for imperfect language are insecure assholes.

      it’s just as stupid online when people grammar police you for written words.