• Sylvartas@lemmy.world
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      14 hours ago

      Wtf, I know how obnoxious stoners can be, but have these ladies even met a cigar snob ? They’re worse, and it smells worse too !

      • RBWells@lemmy.world
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        13 hours ago

        I do have a cocktails hobby, but would file it under “cooking”. Not being drunk as a hobby but creating something delicious is so satisfying. I don’t enjoy being drunk but do like a drink, make one 1 to 3 times a week for me and always something great for parties/entertaining.

        I almost think it insulates against alcoholism the same way caring about good and delicious food insulates against overweight - I don’t really ever drink just to drink, or eat mindlessly. I make intentional meals, intentional drinks, and enjoy them.

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      Ok, but most of those shouldn’t even be considered hobbies. Like poker can be a hobby but if your hobby is just “gambling” then you probably have an issue. I guess your hobby could be porn if you’re in the kink scene and into making porn or something, but while watching porn is ok, if you consider watching porn a hobby then you may have an issue.

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      17 hours ago

      How can reading be no 1 most attractive and comic books are on the unattractive side of the list?

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        15 hours ago

        If you’re genuine: reading brings to mind books, and people might see books as intellectual but comics as geeky/childish

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        I think it’s collecting vs reading. I’m a lady and read comics, well graphic novels, I don’t buy the individual issues. Half my bookshelf is graphic novels trade paperbacks. But I do not collect, trade, sell, I don’t think of them like that, they are for reading and enjoying.

        Collecting I can see as an unattractive trait because it’s too close to hoarding.

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          Whew that was a close one. I started reading comics again a few years ago and only have been getting TPB or HCs. Who has space for boxes of singles?

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      17 hours ago

      …11% of women find men who watch pornography attractive?

      12% of women find men who argue online attractive?

      23% of women are into cryptobros??

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        11 hours ago

        A lot of cryptobros claim to have gotten rich, or seem likely to be flashing their money around. If someone is throwing money around, why not be somewhere you can catch some

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        15 hours ago

        Watch porn, or make porn? I know a few friends who would find latter attractive. Not so much the former.

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        17 hours ago

        I think this is from a survey, so keep in mind that its people reading and answering questions. Some number of people always interpret it a different way or misread.